In modern society, many boys are often treated as backup or licking dogs by girls. Although they are sincere, they are always ignored or taken advantage of by girls. This article will explain in detail the two manifestations of girls treating you as a spare tire or a bitch from two aspects.
When you become a girl’s emotional trash can
If you find that you often become a girl’s emotional vent object, she always looks for comfort and talk in you. If you are unhappy with yourself but never pay attention to your emotions and needs, then you are likely to have become her emotional trash can. In this case, girls seem to be very dependent on your existence, but in fact they will only contact you when they need you, but they will rarely take the initiative to find you.
When you become a girl’s tool
Another situation that is easy to misunderstand is , a girl will often elevate you to the status of a "tool person". She will only contact you when she needs it, but it is usually for her own benefit. For example, she needs you to help her move, repair her computer, go shopping with her, etc. These seem to be things that friends should help each other with, but if you find that a girl only contacts you when she needs help, and usually If she doesn't show any gratitude, you need to be wary of whether she is using you and turning you into her tool.
Conclusion
In short, it is more common for girls to treat you as a spare tire or a bitch. If you feel that you are in this state, then you might as well try to break this status quo. No longer allow yourself to be reduced to someone else’s emotional trash can or tool. Do your own thing well, stick to your own principles and attitudes, and don't be easily taken advantage of by others. I believe you will definitely meet better people and better things.
