Recently, I have received many complaints from fans that my girlfriend always quarrels with me over various trivial matters, and the quarrel escalates to breakup. I don’t know what I should do? I actually want to solve this problem. It’s not difficult. First we have to figure out why girls always talk about breaking up! Let’s take a look.
1. Feeling wronged and thinking of breaking up.
Two people are tired of being together every day, understanding each other’s strengths and weaknesses, and they have long lost the novelty. If you don’t have any sense of ceremony on Valentine’s Day, Christmas, or the other person’s birthday, can she not feel aggrieved?
2. Most of the time, when girls say breakup, they are very angry!
When girls say breakup, it is often just impulsive. When you are angry, it is natural to say things that can irritate you. If you try to reason with her at this time, she won't be able to listen. She just hopes that you can coax her or tease her, so that she will be relieved.
3. Insecure, I hope you will pay more attention to her.
You played games and didn’t reply to her WeChat message. Since Shizune didn’t receive her call, countless bad thoughts would be rolling through her mind. Especially for couples who are in a long-distance relationship and can't see each other often. If you don't take the initiative to tell who you are with, where you are, and what, how can she lose her mood?
4. There is a huge gap between you and your ideal boyfriend.
5. I have accumulated enough disappointment and want to leave.
Girls talk about their true inner thoughts when they break up:
“Then just play with the game.” (Will you stay with me?)
“I’m so angry I hate you!" (I'm so angry, come and coax me)
"What are you doing?" (I think you're crazy)"
"Go away! Get out! "(Hug me)
"Break up!" (Don't leave)
Boys should remember
In fact, girls will be very scared every time they say break up. Afraid that you will really leave.
Every time you say break up, girls are looking forward to your retention. Let her know that you care about her and you are reluctant to let her go. Unfortunately, some of your subtle changes have made her no longer sure whether you still love her that way.
So do you understand now? A girl’s breakup is usually not a real breakup, although she is also very fond of it. She knows that this is wrong, but because she loves you too much and cares about you too much, she still wants to take a gamble even if it is wrong.
